Bill,

I'd take a look at this product. (Kiwi Grip) It is a nice thick finish and looks good. I have not used it, but have heard good things about it. I like the uniformity, the thinckness, and the wear and ding resistance of this material.

http://www.pachena.com/KiwiGrip_Colors.asp

I am not a big fan of the finishes that contain bits of something as they get dislodged, become uneven to the eye, and really only look good just after being applied.

I sugest this since this is what I'd do if I were undertaking this project...